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Male Nesting – There are no Full Moons In Our Home

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Pregnant wife, about to pop

Kristy, 39 weeks pregnant, and ready to have the baby!

If you have been pregnant yourself, are married and have kids, or are close to somebody that has kids, you have likely heard of nesting. It’s the time the mom-to-be suddenly realizes her baby is coming soon and gains enormous boosts of energy in order to prepare the home for the arrival of the new life.

For many moms this period of time is spent cleaning, preparing the baby’s room, organizing baby cloths, and getting EVERYTHING possible ready for the child to be as comfortable as possible when she comes home.

When I had my first child I never really experienced any nesting tendencies, but with this pregnancy things are quite different. I have had several nesting tendencies of my own this go round. In the past couple weeks I have been in male nesting mode, getting ready for the arrival of my first son!

Here is how I have been, “nesting.”

My wife loves to refer to me as her wolf. Anytime I leave stuff lying around the house, or leave dishes unwashed, she says I’m “wolfing out.” Well, there have been no full moons in our home these past couple weeks. Dad has been on top of things like a fat kid on a cupcake!

Anytime I come home from work with a pile of stuff, I immediately put it in its place. I also put my shoes in their proper home (the closet) rather than right next to the entry door. I have even been keeping the kitchen clean, something I’m normally really bad about.

On top of helping around the house, I have also cleaned both of our cars, and installed the car seat. I think this is where it all started. Kristy requested I clean both of our cars, but it didn’t stop with a hose down and a vacuum. I got out the automotive cloths and Armor All and went to town! I have even been KEEPING my car clean, which is the vehicle we are using to bring home our son. I’m normally notorious for leaving things in the car, saying I will get it next time, but of course next time always becomes, NEXT TIME.

Inbox Zero

Inbox Zero. It is possible!

An increased level of productivity at work has also been a result of my nesting frenzy. In anticipation of taking a week off to be with my wife and son I have been a busy beaver. I have even achieved the infamous “Inbox Zero.” Which is something I used to just scoff at. I recently read David Allen’s, Getting Things Done, which is another contributing factor to increased productivity and nesting like tendencies, but ultimately the near arrival of my son has sent me into overdrive to ensure a stress free time away from work. I won’t be able to rest unless I know what has and hasn’t been taken care of.

I currently feel unstoppable. I have really been enjoying this nesting frenzy. So if you have something you want done, you might want to ask me to do it for you before the oven timer goes off: because after that you won’t be able to reach me for an entire week.

Are you a male that has experienced nesting? Do you know another guy who has? Please share your experience in the comments.

About Caleb

I'm the co-owner/founder of Bearded Brothers, an organic snackfood company. I love ultra running, rock climbing and cycling. I'm also a vegetarian, passionate about health and well-being.
  • Iris Sabrina

    Haha! That is awesome that you’ve turned into a nesting dad. Having no children, I’ve never experienced it myself, but when my best friend had her baby I believe she washed every piece of clothing at least three times, incessantly cleaned floors, countertops, doorknobs, keyboards, etc., and was likely to snap at her husband if he inadvertently messed anything up. It was pretty hilarious to watch her clean and re-clean things. I didn’t bother to tell her she’d already done it. Didn’t want to get snapped at, too!

    • CalebSimpson

      Gotta get ready and stay organized so I can feel comfortable taking time off from work! Also want to help Kristy feel at peace by keeping the house clean. I’ve actually come to enjoy having it stay clean myself!

  • Mary Makes Dinner

    I’m at 38 weeks and my husband has gone through a few serious phases of nesting. His tendencies tend to come through with home improvement. The first time was around Thanksgiving when he suddenly went on a mission to replace all of our kitchen appliances. This past month he’s put up shelves, fixed the ice machine in the fridge and reorganized the garage. I knew things had gotten serious when three bunks of lumber showed up last week. Now he’s building a fence and a new deck!

    • CalebSimpson

      Holy crap! Now that is some serious nesting! Jackson rigging the curtains that fell down in the baby’s room is about as handy as i get!

  • princessfiona911

    5 kids later, my husband never nested. But I sure did. Congrats on a beautiful baby!