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Being a father rocks, 7 reasons why fatherhood is so amazing

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Abby and I at Horseshoe Canyon Ranch in Arkansas. Photo Credit: Brandon Hall

When I first got married I thought I wanted kids almost right away, but soon after Kristy and I were wed, fear hit me over the head and I saw what I thought would be a life that took away rather than give life. But the truth is that being a father is one of the most rewarding, life-giving things on this side of eternity. Here are my top seven reasons for why being a father is so amazing.

Selflessness by force

Are you selfish? Chances are, YES. Well, being a father will help you die to yourself and start living for another human being. If getting married didn’t help you with that enough, having a child will totally change your perspective on life.

A child will help you stop living for yourself and start investing in another. You spent the first 20 something years of your life living for yourself. Children allow you to grow beyond that and start investing/mentoring, just like your parents (hopefully) did with you.

Waking up to a smiling face

Waking up to your child smiling and bouncing around is pure joy. In the middle of writing this paragraph I actually got up just to see my daughter whom I heard spouting baby babble in the other room. She was excited to start the day and was ready to see her parents. It was a joy to take a break from writing to see her standing up in her crib smiling.

Teaching values

Just as your parents and mentors throughout life taught you the values that shaped who you are, parenthood gives you that opportunity to shape the life of another human being. As scary as it sound, it’s a huge privilege and should be taken seriously. And don’t be afraid of teaching YOUR values to your child. Just because you teach them what you believe to be right doesn’t mean they will go up accepting every single bit of it. Though I hold to many of the values my dad taught me through the years, there are some issues we don’t agree on.

Sharing your passions

When I grew up my dad would always take me camping, fishing, and hunting. I loved the outdoors. I always looked forward to our family trips to places like Colorado and Yellowstone National Park. I no longer fish or hunt, but my involvement in the outdoors lead to my love for camping, backcountry hiking, and rock climbing.

It’s these passions that I have already started sharing with my daughter. She is only eight months old and we have already taken her camping three times, and another trip already on the calendar.

Watching a human life grow

There is something amazing about watching a human life develop. From the moment my daughter emerged from the womb she has been learning, growing and observing life. It seems like every single day she develops a new skill or awareness. I’m in awe of how much a simple child can know. It’s an amazing reflection of God’s sovereign design and work in creation. The mountains, trees and streams have always blown my mind, but nothing is more mind-blowing and inspiring than watching a child grow.

Your worldview changes

Having a child helps you understand love in a whole new way. Scripture says God loves people like a father loves his child and it becomes clear just how deep that love is when you have a child. Depending on the household you grew up in, you might have experienced a great amount of love from your father, but you can’t truly know the extent of that love until you become a father.

Having a daughter of my own has helped me to value life in ways I never have before. I felt like I began to know her even when she was in the womb. Our relationship began before she even emerged to see the light of the world. Her activity in the womb gave us a pretty good indication of how she would be; active and happy, and that is just how she is today.

Joy in so many little things

There are countless little things that bring you joy. Seeing my daughter laugh and smile from getting tossed into the air, hearing her let out shrieks of excitement for no apparent reason, watching her pull up and stand for the first time, seeing her climb up the sides of the couch before she can even walk (hoping this is an indicator she will be a climber), and many other things are a simple delight.

When I first found out we were pregnant I was hesitant to accept the roll of fatherhood, and it was mostly for selfish reasons. But now that I have a child I wouldn’t trade her for the world, or any other experience. I love my daughter and am extremely thankful for her. I look forward to sharing many great and exciting experiences with her.

8 Time management techniques that will help you be more productive

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Evernote, productivity app!

Evernote, productivity app!

Time is precious, and you want all of it you can get. You’ve probably said to yourself, “If only there were two more hours in the day.” I know I have! Well over the past few years of running my own business I have learned a few things when it comes to making the best use of your time.

Forget Push Notifications

Do you really need your phone buzzing and dinging every time an email comes in? Chances are you don’t. Early on when I first started my business I used push notifications. I was excited about every email that came in. I couldn’t wait to see if it was a new customer ready to start an account, but eventually it became a huge distraction.

I also used to have pop-up notifications turned on in Sparrow (my mail client). I often found myself distracted by emails that were really not that important. The truth is, most emails don’t need an immediate response, and if they do chances are you are aware that email is coming in, and you can check your email as needed.

Now, I’m not the type that only checks my email twice a day, but for some people limiting your time with the Inbox open may be just the thing you need to stay a highly productive person.

Take Notes

For me this used to be done in a Moleskin, but eventually my task list grew beyond pen and paper. How people kept task lists before apps like Evernote and Remember the Milk I will never know. Pen and paper simply can’t contain all that I have to do.

I’m a huge fan of Evernote, it allows me to create multiple notes, under multiple categories. I have several “notebooks” within Evernote. To name a few; Personal, Business, Blog Ideas/Web Stuff, Milleage. Within my business notebook I have a note called Task List where I create checklists of my to-do’s. My to-do list is perhaps what keeps me the most organized. (For more on Evernote, check out this blog post by Lifehacker)

Prioritize the To-Do List

Within Evernote my to-do checklist is broken down into three categories:

Urgent and Important
- These are tasks that must be done that day, or on a certain date within that week. Examples include; running payroll, paying rent, and filing quarterly taxes. They are the essential things you must do to keep your staff happy and business running

Important but Not Urgent
These things are important to the growth of your business and at times have a deadline attached to them, but that deadline may be a ways off. But if you end up approaching that deadline it has the potential to move into the Urgent and Important category.

It’s hard to list specific examples for this since it will vary so much from business to business, but a few from my personal list right now are; file Non-GMO paperwork, find back-up suppliers for ingredients, order t-shirts, create sales post card. None of the tasks I listed have a hard-fast deadline attached to them, but all are important to the growth and health of our business.

Not Important and Not Urgent
It’s slightly more difficult to determine what goes here, because most entrepreneurs will consider everything important. But tasks that fall into this category are things that are not critical to the growth of your business. Note, that I said, “critical.” For us finding alternate suppliers for our ingredients is critical, because if one supplier runs out of something we have to have a back up supply. Updating our Facebook masthead however is not urgent (unless it ties in with a Holiday sale).

Having your task list broken up like this will help you focus on what’s truly important. It also helps you not have a mental breakdown by looking at one HUGE list.

Daily Planning

Take time at the start of every day to review your task list and check emails. Review your task-list and make necessary adjustments. If something has been on your urgent and important list for three days, you either need to tackle that first, or move it to another list. I also use this time to cull through my Inbox and make sure there aren’t any emails I haven’t responded to yet.

Delegation

This is something I struggled with early on in my business. I wanted to do everything myself. But it wasn’t because I truly wanted to do that, it was mostly because I didn’t think anybody could do it as good as I could. I read in ReWork that if you can find somebody to do that job at least 70% as good as you can its time to pass the torch (paraphrased).

I have found delegation is necessary for a healthy organization. It not only frees yourself up to focus on the growth of the business but it empowers your team members and gives them buy in. I can’t even imagine how many hours I would be putting in a week if I didn’t start delegating duties to other team members.

Set Reminders

This is perhaps one of my biggest life savers. Early in my business when I was doing pretty much EVERYTHING. I would often forget things. I would stroll into the kitchen early in the morning, ready to make Ginger Peach energy bars only to discover I hadn’t ordered the ginger, so I would have to go to the grocery store to purchase ginger. Being forgetful disrupts your day, and the larger your organization becomes the more disruptive forgetfulness has on your organization. For example, forgetting an order of ginger now means we have to move that production day somewhere else on the calendar, which means the team might have to work a weekend to get the job done.

So, use your smart phones reminder feature. Also make sure you utilize the reminders for events in your calendar. I usually set two; one for the day before to remind me the event is coming, and one 15 minutes before (earlier if I have to drive to the appointment). Reminders are especially useful if there are weekly tasks you have to perform. It can be easy to even forget daily duties when things get crazy busy.

Relax

Don’t forget to take some time to relax! Get outside, exercise! Do something other than work. It’s definitely easier said than done, but I have found when I take the time to exercise, and actually end my workday, I am far less stressed. For me the exercise is crucial. I might be having the worse day ever, but if I take the time to go on a run, the stress usually winds down and I can think clearly again. Don’t underestimate the importance of exercise and relaxation.

Work in a productive environment

Find a place where you can get work done. Our current production facility is not conducive to this. I have a large and very noisy condenser unit for a walk in cooler directly above my desk, which makes it difficult to host meetings and impossible to make phone calls.

So find a place where you can focus and get stuff done. For some people it may be a coffee shop, for others it may be working from home. If your office doesn’t allow for this check to see if there are other options. In my last 9-5 job I would go shut myself in an empty conference room if I needed to get a lot of work done.

It might also help to have mandatory quiet hours in your office. I remember walking into the office of a popular tech startup one day expecting to see more of a party environment than an office, but that wasn’t the case. Quietly working at their desk were about 15-20 employees, many wearing headphones. I can only assume they had a mandatory quiet hour rule in place.

Overnight success is a fairy tail

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I’m sure you have watched the news before and heard them refer to a business or and individual as an “overnight success”, or seen a business explode with growth after being on Oprah. Well, I’m here to tell you that overnight success stories only exist in an imaginary world.

True success comes with hard work, long work weeks, sleepless nights, and genuine passion for what you do. To some degree my company Bearded Brothers has experienced success, but I wouldn’t by any means say we have arrived, in fact we still have crap-tons of work to do. After being in business we have managed to get our product into 250 stores across the US, but that leaves thousands of retail locations untapped. We still have our work cut out for us.

One of my favorite stories of overnight success is the game Angry Birds, by Rovio. When I first purchased this addictive game for .99 in the App Store I seriously thought to myself that they were an overnight success. Just because I had never heard of Rovio before didn’t mean they were not hard at work cranking out game after game for eight years! In fact they created 52 games in eight years before creating the game Angry Birds.

The food processor that gave Bearded Brothers their start. The motor would constantly overheat in the middle of making batches of energy bars.

The food processor that gave Bearded Brothers their start. The motor would constantly overheat in the middle of making batches.

Every company has a story of their journey. Nobody woke up one day and decided it was time to make it big. For Bearded Brothers our story starts off with a 14 Cup Cuisinart Food Processor that overheated constantly when we made our energy bars. We also had a wooden mold that we used to form and cut the bars that eventually fell apart from washing it in hot water every day. It was also a beast to clean and was perhaps the most arduous part of our production process.

Even though we have always had a great product, we have had to work hard to get the product into peoples mouths. We continually send out free product for events such as races, rock climbing events and disc golf events. We attend demos regularly in the stores that sell our product. Success is coming at the cost of hustling every day!

So, forget the romanticized notion of overnight success. If overnight success existed I would have become a star photographer years ago, but photography was something I didn’t stick with. Even Ansel Adams’ career spanned five decades; over that time he continually perfected his craft. Adams never felt like he arrived either, he continued to work hard at what he did because he was passionate about it.

If success is something you truly desire, my advice to you is find something you are passionate about and pursue it, because your overnight success journey is going to take years and is going to be full of trials. Even if you do “arrive” you are going to work harder than you ever have before.

If overnight success meant we all got to live lush easy lives, Entrepreneur wouldn’t have published an article on how to cope with “overnight success.” Even success itself hosts a myriad of challenges.

A beard for a baby

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Everybody loves beards, but even more than that, people love babies! For that reason I have decided to participate in A Beard for a Baby.

From now until December 1, I will be growing my beard to help raise adoption funds for the Hoffman’s. This is where I need your help.

I need 10 people to commit to pledging $10 a month for every month I don’t shave. June-November. That would bring your total donation to $60. My beard length is already the longest it has ever been, so it should be pretty impressive at the end of the six months.

One time donations are also welcome. In effort to up the stakes, I will shave my beard down to a tiny stubble (at the end of the growth period) for anybody that donates $100 or more!

To join the cause and support my growth, please visit the support a beard page. Simply enter my name and YOUR email address for monthly donations of $10, or select the one time donation option and enter my name.

Also, today is my birthday, so your donation would make an excellent gift!

If you decided to donate please comment here or send me an email through the contact form letting me know.

Day 1 of A beard for a baby.

Day 1 of A beard for a baby.

15 Reasons to start your business TODAY

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1. Job security is a falsehood

Lets get something straight; there is now such thing as job security? I worked a government job for six years and saw plenty of lay offs during that time. My dad worked for a company for 25 years only to see his retirement (invested in stock) disappear when the company came to a near halt. He just happened to be the only one in the plant to keep his job. He was transferred to a new plant in Mexico, and three years later the company was bought up. He didn’t stick around to see what happened. It just goes to show; job security really does not exist. It doesn’t matter how secure you think your job is, it can disappear in the blink of an eye.

2. There is never a perfect time

For years I worked a traditional 9 to 5 job, hating every minute of it. I kept waiting for the perfect time to break into the world of freelance, but the truth is, that time was never going to come. Like many people, I was waiting for the stars and moon to align at some magical moment where it was crystal clear; this is the moment to start your business. Well, give it up, that moment is never going to occur. You will always sit around waiting for it, so get up and do something! Now is the time to launch your business.

3. Raising Capital has never been easier

With websites like Kickstarter and other crowd funding sites it has never been easier to raise the startup capital needed to launch your new idea. As long as you have a great product, service, or idea you have a good chance at having a successful project, just as long as you invest plenty of time into the project.

4. Starting a business creates jobs, many times over

Okay, it may seem obvious. You start a business, you hire employees, it creates job. But in reality this happens many times over. Once you start a business you are going to in turn boost cash flow for other companies you are purchasing from, thus causing them to grow and hire more staff. And who knows, one of your team members might move on to start another venture and repeat what you have done.

5. You have an idea, and it solves a problem

Chances are you are fully capable of providing a service somebody wants. Or you have solved a problem in an existing industry. You would be doing the world an injustice by not bringing your product or service to market. If your idea has met your own need, chances are it will meet the needs of masses.

6. Independent Freedom

Ahh freedom! Say goodbye to two weeks paid vacation and 12 paid Holidays a year. If you own your own business, you set your own schedule! Granted, this isn’t a cakewalk. You are going to have to hustle, and might even forgo some vacation days in the start. But in the long run you control your own schedule, and life becomes more flexible. Want to live in Colorado for the summer? Need your mornings free to train for a triathlon? Well, you’re the boss, do what you want!

7. Empower others

By starting your own business you are going to inspire others to do the same. Others will also ask you for help when they are starting their business. It’s a wonderful opportunity for you to develop your leadership skills and help the economy grow through the power of influence.

8. Create your own destiny

No longer do you have to slave away for “the man” and hope you get a promotion and a raise. If you run your own business you control how much you make. Keep in mind, you might not make as much as you would like to start, but who ever said starting a business was easy and wouldn’t require some sacrifice?

9. It becomes a platform to promote your personal convictions

I’m a huge advocate for sustainability and organic farming. These values can be seen in my business. Likewise your business can become a megaphone for whatever cause you truly believe in. There has been an increase in the number of companies that are tied in to a social cause. That isn’t for everybody, but owning your own business helps you reach more people with whatever message you want to proclaim.

10. Everybody else is afraid

Lets face it, many people are afraid to start their own business. Don’t be that person. Jump on in – the water is fine! And while everybody else is still dipping their toes in the water you are swimming ahead, leaving the would-be competition in your wake (if there is even a wake left by the time they catch up).

11. You will never work harder, and be more successful

Hate your current job? Well you can kiss a promotion goodbye. Chances are if you are stuck in a job you hate you will never succeed. I speak from experience (8 years of it). But once you find something you are truly passionate about, you will work harder than you ever have, and that hard work, persistence and dedication will equate to success. Hard work, boring work, and monotonous work will no longer be drudgery when it is focused on building something you care about with all your being.

12. People love a good story

Take Sweat Leaf Tea for example. Although owned by Coca-Cola now, they have a story to tell. They started out making tea in a garage with pillowcases. Similarly Clif bar started out of a disdain for the only other energy bar available at the time. It was started in the founders’ mother’s kitchen. People latch onto stories and want to support it because it’s human. Perhaps we all have a bit of entrepreneur in us just waiting to come out.

13. You are only getting older

This ties back into, “there is never a perfect time.” Stop saying, I will start my business when I’m ___ years old or have ___ years of experience. Start now! Experience doesn’t matter…..

14. Experience doesn’t matter

Yeah, I said it twice, and I will say it again, “Experience doesn’t matter”. When I launched Bearded Brothers, neither Chris or I knew jack about food manufacturing, distributors, gross profit margin, or what was even required by the FDA and local health department, but we didn’t let that stop us. We learned what we needed to do to launch, and continued to learn as we went along. We are still learning today. Don’t use lack of experience as an excuse; if you care enough you will learn what has to be done.

15. You want to do this

If you have read this far chances are you really want to start your own business, or already have. So, do what you want to do. Life is short, and if running your own business is your true hearts desire, then go for it. The worst thing that can happen is you fail! And if you do, it’s not the end of the world, just pick yourself back up and start something else.